Office sexual relationship 

Office sexual relationship 

There is no denying the fact that the relationship among workers sometimes exceeds the surface. As time passes by and intimacy sets in, something even deeper is introduced, it is office romance.

While some co-workers enjoy mere workplace friendship, some take it a step forward to add romance to theirs. For these click of people, it could be outside the work environment, night clubs, relaxation joints, hotels or even homes.

However, a new survey from Yellow Octopus has revealed that one in 10 co-workers have sex at work and the frequency might shock you.

If you noticed that your co-workers book out a meeting room for an unspecified chat on a regular basis, chances are that they are doing every other thing but official meeting!

The survey was conducted on 1,000 people about their in-office behaviour and found that sex at work is, indeed happening, perhaps with more frequency than one might envisage.

This trend is on the rise among skilled labours during the day and even more among unskilled labours who run night shifts.

Of the people surveyed, 11 percent said they had had sex in the office with a co-worker, while four percent said they had done it with a non-employee — meaning, they had brought someone into the building unofficially.

The majority did it after office hours, but around a third managed to get away with sex in office during work hours. Technically, they were getting paid to enjoy sex.

Unfortunately, before you start conceiving an idea to try this out, be informed that the researchers also disclose that 14 percent of those who had sex at work were caught and the consequences are better imagined.

The moral of this report is: Don’t try sex at work.


News Headlines Feb 5, 2018. Headlines From Nigeria’s Major Newspapers 

News Headlines Feb 5, 2018. Headlines From Nigeria’s Major Newspapers 

Compiled by Demola Adefajo

The Punch

Morocco humiliate Eagles 4-0 to win CHAN title
Man accused of impregnating, aborting three times for wife’s sister
Relocate to Kano, Gov Ganduje tells herdsmen
Confusion as IBB disowns statement on 2019 issued by spokesman
How juju arrested PHCN officials in Osogbo
Klopp on ref
Barcelona attack Neymar
Morocco humiliate Eagles 4-0 to win CHAN title
I’m ready for Access Bank Lagos marathon – Olamide
Okolie targets spot on Joshua undercard
Lagos sailors arraigned for N48m fuel theft
FUTA final year student dies while playing football
One injured in attack on OPC faction
Slain graduate lynched at drinking joint – AOCOED
NDDC to build permanent office in A’Ibom
Power grid records first collapse in February
Barcelona attack Neymar
Man rejects dinner bill, asks ‘Do you know who I am?’
Lagos sailors arraigned for N48m fuel theft
Man bites dog on the mouth to save his pet
Woman cuts baby from pregnant neighbour’s womb
Five-year-old girl suffers severe burns during ‘deliverance’
Political thugs attack governorship aspirant in Cross River
Eight takeaways from Saraki’s Georgetown varsity speech
Adeosun takes tax amnesty campaign to Enugu
Suspended SEC DG, Gwarzo, clarifies N1.7bn payment to workers
Finance Control Act weak, needs review, says Adeosun
NAICOM to check illegal placement of business abroad
Stakeholders plan to simplify mortgage transactions
 Why I left Arsenal for Chelsea –Giroud
Kylie Jenner gives birth to baby girl
Midnight Crew not dead –Mike Abdul
Why I left Five Star – Skiibii
I’ve never had a threesome – Ras Kimono
Don’t ignore red flags when courting – Seyi Ariyo (Shebaby)
I don’t want to rush into marriage —Praiz
Editorial: That misguided attack on BBOG group
Sensible path to a stronger naira and economic prosperity
Are we now back to fuel subsidy?
An uncomfortable truth when government pursues vengeance (1)


Confusion as IBB Disowns Media Aide, Issues Own Statement on Buhari

Don’t Seek Second Term, IBB Tells Buhari

Benue Killings: IGP Complicit, On Mission to Mislead Nigerians, Says Ortom

With N69.3bn ‘Under-recovery’, NNPC Retains Petrol Price at N145/ltr in Jan

Keep Your Advice, Buhari’ll Win in 2019, Ebute Tells Obasanjo

Fashola: Power Sector Prepared to Support Growth in Mining, Others
Adeboye Leads RCCG Worshippers to Pray against Killers, Protectors, Sponsors
Two Nigerians Among Victims of Italian Far Right Gunman
FG, States, LGs Shared N5.9tn in 2017
Understanding, Not Confrontation Will End Farmers, Herders’ Clashes, Says Ekweremadu
Appeal Court Strikes out Brittania-U’s Suit against Chevron, Others over OMLs
Saraki: Education Reforms Key to Africa’s Development
Soldiers Invade Tompolo’s Village
Herdsmen Attacks: Ogun Communities Cry Out, Seek Govt, Police Protections
Alaibe, Friends Equip Rivers University Library
10 Libyan Returnees Released to Reunite with Families in A’Ibom
Presidency Removes Officials of Niger School Feeding C’ttee
Sokoto Lawmaker Seeks Massive Financial Support for the Needy
Hajj Commission Proposes  N1.56bn for 2018
Rivers Targets May for Council Elections
Tell Your Kinsmen to Release Our Son in Their Custody, Akeredolu Urged
N’Delta Group Petitions EFCC, ICPC over Alleged Racketeering in Amnesty Programme
Ekwueme’s Burial: Obi thanks FG, others
Mark Canvasses Good Neighbourliness, Fairness, Justice in Nigeria
Bayelsa Monarch: Why My People Cannot Fight Dickson
Suspected Herdsman Arrested over Attempted Rape
Tension in Ekiti as OPC, RTEAN Members Clash
Perennial Fuel Scarcity in Lagos
Obaseki tasks Esan professionals on sustainable development 
FG: Agriculture Has Created Seven Million Jobs
Lagos May Lose Slot as Second Busiest Airport in Africa to…
A’Ibom, NNPC, Dangote, Others to Establish New Power Plant
Gwarzo: SEC Board Approved Golden Handshake for Voluntary Retirees
Consumer Goods, Banking Stocks Drive Growth of THISDAY Model Portfoli
Tukur Canvasses Robust Economic Plan to Check Farmers-Herders Crises
Secondus: PDP Has Developed Strategies to Win in 2019
22 Opposition Parties Meet on Insecurity, 2019 Elections
incessant Attacks on Falae’s Farm

Host Morocco Crush Home-based Eagles to Lift CHAN 2018
NPFL: Plateau Hammers Sunshine 5-0 to Keep Pressure on Akwa Utd 
Africa Wrestling Boss, Meskout, Arrives Garden City for Championship 
I Am Battle Ready for Access/Lagos City Marathon, Says Olamide
Akwa Utd, Dana Seal Partnership in Uyo 
Zenith/Delta Principal’s Cup: Organisers Release Q’finals Fixtures 
Obasanjo’s About-Face

The Nation

2019: Drama over IBB’s stand on Buhari’s future
IGP orders Afegbua’s arrest
EFCC sues firm, MD over alleged N1.275b ‘gift’ to PDP
Covenant Varsity to represent Nigeria at global competition
‘Insurgency completely defeated’
One issue, two stands and a controversy
Falana asks Govt to bring back deported naturalised Nigerians from Cameroon
Get your voter cards, says Ikpeazu
Policeman, trader, villager killed in Benue
Fayemi gives free UTME forms to 5,000 admission seekers
Why Imo politicians are fighting me, by Okorocha 
Calabar Radio station gives free fuel
Fed Govt has created millions of jobs, says minister
Oyo-Ita warns Perm Secs against corruption
Pension fund: Maina files N10b suit against Magu, commission
Morocco Win CHAN 2018, Down Eagles 4 – 0
ITTF Ranking: Omotayo becomes second highest ranked Nigerian
19 players fit for Morocco clash
CHAN Final: Eagles can do it, says Ifeanyi
Eyube: Buhari deserves second term
Will Buhari implement APC panel report on restructuring?
‘Nigeria should return to ideological politics’
Save my soul (4)

The Sun

Militant leader warns FG against proposed amnesty termination
Ijaw youths defend Buhari, Boroh on PAP
Military arrests 6 suspects as explosion rocks Agip pipelines
Anambra tanker explosion: 17 shops razed
2019: Obasanjo’s coalition, no threat to PDP – Secondus
Bumper allocations: FG, States, LGCs share N5.9trn in 2017
FG, N2.5tr, States N3.3tr Lagos gets N201bn, Akwa-Ibom N197bn, … Gombe, Ebonyi N57bn each
Automotive agency in recruitment scandal
…New DG employs 50 Sokoto, Zamfara states indigenes
CHAN 2018: Atlas Lions humiliate Eagles in final
JUST IN: IBB debunks statement on President Buhari
FOR THE RECORDS: IBB writes Buhari, says ‘Don’t run in 2019’
2019: I’m most qualified to succeed Okorocha –Madumere
…Imo needs my experience, says Ohakim
Anambra tanker explosion: 17 shops razed
Trump’s Jerusalem: A time bomb
Agony of a female lawyer : How I was brutalised, humiliated by DPO
•She was behaving like a mad woman, says police boss
Why we need newbreed leaders in 2019
Why Kalu backs Buhari…unflinchingly
A memo to my Christian brethren
My second bouquet of emotions to the serial writer
President’s funding of amnesty programme paying off – Ijaw youths
Petrol tanker explodes near Anambra market
Pat Robertson, CBN founder, recovering from stroke, network says
Sentiments trail herdsmen’s killings because Buhari is Fulani -Aluko
2019: Fulfil your 2015 promises first, Isong tells Buhari
Nigerians can’t risk another four years of Buhari -Obi
Economy: Anxiety heightens campaign spend’ll hurt fragile growth
Don’t blame auto policy for high cost of new vehicles –Bayero, MD/CEO,
Why we’re committed to agric funding through DIFRAD –Fortis Money MD
2019 FIBA World Cup qualifier: Rwanda calls up seven professionals to battle Nigeria
Africa wrestling boss, Meskout, arrives P’Harcourt for AWC
Benefits of record keeping to agribusiness
Nigerians urged to embrace organic foods
FG targets N5tr from non-oil export
Lafarge Africa rewards South-South, South-East customers
EDITORIAL: Timelines for federal budgets

Daily Trust

Morocco flog Super Eagles to lift CHAN 2018 trophy
Maina sues Magu, EFCC over alleged defamation, demands N10bn
2019: No more imposition of candidates in PDP – Secondus
Commission investigates police failure to prosecute lawmaker
2019: YIAGA partners INEC on youth engagement strategy
Don urges govt to allocate more fund for cultural sector
Controversy as spokesman insists IBB authorised ‘Vote out Buhari in 2019’ statement
Bribery Scandal: Suspend CCT Chairman – A2J
IBB disowns state of the nation statement
Again Nafada shuns Gombe APC excos inauguration
‘Buhari can’t be blackmailed out of power’
…President urged to act fast
Kano APC crisis: Group moves to broker peace
2019: Bayelsans deserve a visionary leader — Sylva
2019: LG council chairmen endorse Pwajok
No alternative to APC in 2019 — Nasarawa speaker
2019: MPN elects new excos
Avoid making hasty political decisions — Youths urged
60,000 PVC not collected in Katsina — INEC
Nasarawa guber aspirant visits own ward, solicits support
Kwara: Saraki not welcome in PDP — Abdulrazaq
Badaru denies holding political meeting in Kaduna
2nd term: ADP hails IBB for advising Buhari
Power firms fail payment obligations, shun 100% TEM rule
Going to stock exchange was to leave a legacy – CEO Med-View Airline
Nigeria, foreign countries share data on overseas bank accounts, property
Arik resumes P/H flight from Lagos
Foreign airlines’ trapped funds dip as BA clears backlogs
DSS to pay N10m damages for shooting wrong suspect
Al-Makura says Nasarawa set to receive Buhari tomorrow
AU award boosts Buhari’s anti-corruption fight – Council
FG, states voted N7.5% of N43tr budgets on education in 3 years
Firemen rescue man, 75, from burning house in Kano
$202m missing in NIA — Reps panel.
I am battle ready for 2018 Access Bank Lagos City Marathon – Olamide
Power firms fail payment obligations, shun 100% TEM rule
Two found dead in Utako, Jabi
Buhari: AU’s recognition as an acid test
LINAC in cancer treatment: The UDUTH model
Editorial: Grisly murder at Gboko Motor Park

The Guardian

 Drama, confusion as Babangida ‘disowns’ quit advice to Buhari
Reps uncover another ‘missing’ $202m from NIA
Government restates warnings on ‘offshore havens’
Maina sues Magu, EFCC over alleged defamation of character
Zero refining capacity costs airlines 500 million litres fuel shortage yearly 
Ohakim threatens to protest naked against non-payment of Imo judges
BPP, National Assembly berate MDAs’ poor compliance with procurement act
Kebbi governor links clashes to climate change
80,000 learners in North East benefit from USAID-supported education
Woeful Eagles thrashed 4-0 as Morocco’s Atlas Lions win CHAN title
NFF shies away from controversy over Rohr’s, Dennerby’s roles in Nigerian football development
Seun Olamide declares readiness to reclaim 2018 Lagos city marathon title
Karate boss accuses FG, states of neglecting sport
We want to be among top 10 at PyeongChang 2018 Winter Olympics, says Omeoga
Water sports can drive Lagos tourism industry, says Ivie
‘Francophone, Anglophone blocks must end trade barriers’
Stakeholders to domesticate policy covers nationwide
‘The only way out of poverty challenge is to grow businesses’
Chinese firm loses bid to stop trial on $12b missing crude oil
 Editorial: Bureaux de change and the economy
 The Fulani herdsmen militia siege
Obasanjo’s coalition of disgruntled politicians
Of cancer control and access to treatment!  
Is life all about switching lanes?
PDP has potential to take over presidency in 2019, says Ize-Iyamu
APC government a colossal failure, says Uche Secondus
Groups urge Nigerians to participate in electoral process
 How To Use Exercise To Boost Your Metabolism
Thailand seizes Nigeria’s smuggled ivory as rescued chimpanzees face uncertain future
Fresh controversy rages over Lagos land use charge policy
Nigeria, others commit to pollution-free Africa
Cross River gets March date for IDPs houses in Bakassi
‘Cancer crippling global economy with N417.6 trillion lost yearly’
Mother, 44, cured of deadly breast cancer with cannabis oil


Sensible Path To A Stronger Naira And Economic Prosperity – Henry Boyo
2019: Nigerians Will Not Succumb To Propaganda Again – Adeniran
Attack On Ooni Of Ife: Iwo Chief Tackles Oluwo
PDP Alleges Neglect Of Ambrose Alli University
Religious Extremism And Global Genocide (2)
Lassa Fever: Fear Grips Ondo As Death Toll Rises To Nine
Bayelsa Monarch Tasks Dickson On Ayama Road Project
E-Payment Struggles To Grow As Transactions Hit N69trn In 2017
Alleged Missing $44m: NIA Cash Still Intact — Reps
Pension Bureau To Sanction Erring PFAs In Delta
Insurers Owe Dangote Group Over N400m
2019: Delta APC Chairmen At Loggerheads Over Ogboru
Hearing In Trial Of Emirates Airlines Resumes Tomorrow
Lagos Policeman Killed In Shootout With Robbers
Hike In Lekki Toll: Motorists, Commuters Call For Ambode’s Intervention
BPP Faults MDAs On Compliance With Public Procurement Requirements
AMEN Seeks FG’s Intervention To Stop SMEDAN Evacuation Noti
Realignment of forces towards 2019 okay, if…. says Ibrahim Babangida
Customers purchase N1.7bn airtime through FirstBank’s ATM
2019: Coalition for Nigeria Movement, no threat to PDP’s victory — Secondus
I do not intend to deny President Buhari his right to vote and be voted for – IBB
Controversy as IBB denies asking Buhari not to recontest in another open letter
2019: Nigerians will not succumb to propaganda again – Adeniran
2019: Delta APC chairmen at loggerheads over Ogboru
Breaking: 11 PDP Governors in closed door meeting in Asaba
Buhari to host Nigeria Bobsled team after Korea Games
Nigeria vs Morocco: How Eagles lost $1.25m to Morocco in CHAN
United fans respond to Mourinho criticism
African Nations Championship leading scorers
Breaking: Morocco whip Nigeria 4-0 to win CHAN 2018
Our plan to rescue Nigeria from Buhari – OBJ’s men
US reality TV star Kylie Jenner gives birth to baby girl
I don’t try to be who I am not – Mary Lazarus
The relevance of financial literacy to underprivileged and the wealthy
I ran into trouble on my multi-million Naira farm in Nigeria after quitting mortuary job in the US – Oyekoya

Babangida denies statement on Buhari

Babangida denies statement on Buhari

Babangida (left) and Buhari

Former Military President, Ibrahim Badamasi Babangida, has denied a statement in which he asked President Muhammadu Buhari not to contest the 2019 election. 

Responding to the widely circulated statement issued by his spokesman, Mr Kasim Afegbua, Babangida said the statement did not tally with his views on national issues. 

‘My attention has been drawn to a report making rounds especially online in which I was quoted as advising Nigerians not to vote for President Muhammadu Buhari in the coming 2019 election.

‘Not only is the said statement untrue, it is in its entirety, an inaccurate representation  of my view of the state of our dear Nation’, he said. 

He was quoted as asking President Buhari to step down for digital leadership in 2019. 

With this denial, Babangida has tried to distance himself from the stance of another former President, Chief Olusegun Obasanjo, who late last month wrote an 18-page letter, accusing the President of poor handling of the economy and clannishness. 
Babangida also said as a former head of state he had access to make his views known to the President without resorting to open letter. 
Here is the full text of the letter:

My attention has been drawn to a report making rounds especially online in which I was quoted as advising Nigerians not to vote for President Muhammadu Buhari in the coming 2019 election.

Not only is the said statement untrue, it is in its entirety, an inaccurate representation  of my view of the state of our dear Nation.

As a former President and an elder statesman, I have existing communication channels through which I reach out to President Muhammadu Buhari on topical issues of national importance, should there be the need so to do.

The media,  both online or mainstream and indeed the unsuspecting public are advised to disregard such false reports.

Thank you and God Bless you all.

Gen. Ibrahim Badamasi Babangida (Rtd) (GCON)
Former Military President Federal Republic of Nigeria

Hilltop Mansion
Minna, Niger state.
4th February 2018.

Ignore Obasanjo’s letter to Buhari, Senator Waku asks Nigerians

Why Obasanjo is angry with Buhari – Waku

Senator Joseph Waku

Nigerians have been advised to ignore the letter written by former President Olusegun Obasanjo to President Muhammadu Buhari. Describing the letter as a thrash and full of mischief, former member of the National Assembly, Senator Joseph Waku lambasted Obasanjo whom he described as a serial blackmailer.

In this interview with TUNDE THOMAS, Waku also spoke on other national issues including the recent herdsmen killings, proposed cattle colonies by the Federal Government among others.

What’s your take on the letter written to President Muhammadu Buhari by former President Olusegun Obasanjo?

Obasanjo is an attention seeker who should be ignored. Obasanjo likes playing to the gallery. If Obasanjo is a mature man and a genuine patriot and elder statesman who he wants us to believe he is, that letter he wrote to Buhari is needless.

Why do I say the letter is needless? It is needless because Obasanjo has unfettered access to President Buhari and all those issues he raised in the letter he could have discussed with the President one-on-one, and if Obasanjo didn’t want that option, he could have requested that a meeting should be convened where he, President Buhari and other former presidents and heads of states in the country who are all members of the Council of States would have discussed the issues he raised. But Obasanjo I know very well can never change – Obasanjo is mischievous. He is a blackmailer. Through that letter, Obasanjo wanted to incite Nigerians against Buhari.

Obasanjo is very mischievous. He wrote that letter to Buhari out of mischief and not out of patriotism. If Obasanjo had sought an audience with Buhari or even invite Buhari, and he refused to honour his invitation or if he had been unable to get the Council of States to discuss the issues he raised, it would have been understandable, but Obasanjo had not exploited all these avenues before he wrote his satanic letter to Buhari. Obasanjo is a selfish individual who likes playing to the gallery.

You were saying that Obasanjo lacked the moral right to write the letter …

Yes. As the saying goes, those who live in a glass house should not throw stones. Obasanjo is throwing stones from inside the glass house he is living in, and he deserves to be stoned back.

Without trying to be a spokesman for Buhari, but now speaking the fact as a Nigerian, Buhari compared to Obasanjo is a saint. Obasanjo should keep quiet. Obasanjo was a terrible leader when he was President of Nigeria between 1999 — 2007. He was a dictator, brutal and very incompetent. Obasanjo’s evil deeds are many, but one can mention a few. He introduced political corruption into this country. Although he set up EFCC and ICPC, but he just used the anti-graft agencies to witch-hunt his political opponents. We all remember how Obasanjo used EFCC to persecute his political opponents. The then EFCC boss, Nuhu Ribadu became Obasanjo’s hunting dog – in connivance with Ribadu. Obasajo illegally impeached several state governors including Joshua Dariye in Plateau and Rasheed Ladoja in Oyo State.

Obasanjo also in a brazen act of corruption elevated Ribadu within a period of six months from Assistant Commissioner of Police to Assistant Inspector-General of Police, AIG.

Obasanjo also introduced the privatization programme through which his administration sold Nigeria’s primed assets to Obasanjo himself and his cronies.

What about the Obasanjo’s Presidential Library in Ota, a personal project of Obasanjo but in which Obasanjo ensured that he extorted billions of naira from state governors, business moguls and others to put up the monumental structure. Recently, one of the state governors then, Ayodele Fayose claimed that Obasanjo forced state governors to donate billions of naira to the project, and Fayose had asked Obasanjo to refund Ekiti State donation.

How do you now describe somebody involved in all these scam as a wise man, who is in a position to lecture others or accuse others of corruption? Obasanjo is the father of all corruption.

But some Nigerians are saying that the letter should not just be dismissed with a wave of the hands and that it contains some allegations and issues which, Buhari should address …

That’s why I said earlier that Buhari is not a saint, and that no human being is 100 percent perfect. But I’m still on Obasanjo, I have not finished with him. Obasanjo talking to Buhari about insecurity and killings – for Obasanjo himself, it was worse under his administration when he was the president. Remember Odi killings that took place under Obasanjo’s watch where innocent people were murdered and their properties destroyed based on the orders of Obasanjo to the security agents.

What about the killings in Zaki Biam, the village of the then Chief of Army Staff, Lt-Gen. Victor Malu. Even though Malu was a senior official in Obasanjo’s administration, yet Obasanjo betrayed him by destroying his village.

What about individuals that were assassinated during Obasanjo’s era. Bola Ige, the then number one judicial officer was killed and up till today, his killers are yet to be apprehended. What about Marshall Harry and others whose lives were wasted during Obasanjo’s years in office? We can go on and on. The list is endless and this is one of the reasons why I said Obasanjo lacks the moral stand to attack Buhari.

Obasanjo was a callous and vindictive man who hounded so many innocent Nigerians into jail during his time in office. At over 80 years, it is sad that Obasanjo is yet to mature. He can never change.

Obasanjo should stop playing to the gallery; he should bury his head in shame. He should stop trying to project himself as the oracle of the nation. Is this not the same Obasanjo that wanted to run for a third term but who was stopped in his track by some patriots. Obasanjo was a saboteur who wanted to subvert the constitution in order to run for a third term; he should keep quiet. Obasanjo is a hypocrite. He should be ignored. Here is Obasanjo who wanted to run for a third term not allowed by the Nigerian Constitution but he is now asking somebody who is constitutionally allowed to run for a second term not to do so. He is a hypocrite.

But in that letter, Obasanjo stated that he was advising Buhari not to go for a second term based on his performance, and his failing health …

What’s there to write about in Obasanjo’s eight years of failure as Nigeria’s leader. Monumental corruption took place under Obasanjo’s watch whereas Buhari is fighting corruption. Obasanjo should explain what happened to over N60 billion his government earmarked for electrification project, but instead of giving us light, Obasanjo gave us darkness. Buhari is trying his best. For instance, Buhari’s administration has built up Nigeria’s foreign reserve to $40 billion, whereas under the previous administration, our foreign reserve had been depleted to zero level. Where we need to give credit, we should not hesitate to do so, and where we want to condemn or criticize, we should also do so. To me, Buhari has not been a failure, and I believe that there is still room for improvement. Obasanjo has a lot of skeletons in his cupboard; he should keep quiet.

Do you have any words of advice for Obasanjo?

Obasanjo can never change. He is like a leopard who can never change from its dark spots. How do you advise a man that is over 80 years. Even if Obasanjo attain the age of Methuselah, that is, if he lives for over 900 years, he will still remain the same. Maturity has nothing to do with age. Obasanjo, since I know him, has never exhibited any sign of maturity. At times, he behaves childishly. He doesn’t have the traits of a genuine patriot, and qualities required of a statesman. On whether Buhari should seek reelection or not, the president has not come out to make a categorical statement on it. So what’s Obasanjo’s headache all about?

If Buhari decides to seek a second term, it is his constitutional right to do so. The problem with Obasanjo is that he is not happy or doesn’t want anybody to equal his own record. If Buhari decides to seek reelection, then it means he will be equaling Obasanjo’s record, and he is not happy about that. Again Obasanjo is bitter and angry with Buhari that Buhari has not been running to him for advice in Ota. Obasanjo is not happy that Buhari has not become a regular visitor to Ota; he is not happy that Buhari has not been coming to pay homage to him at his Ota farm. He wanted Buhari to be dancing to his own tunes, and all these Buhari has not done.

What’s your reaction to Obasanjo’s call for a coalition movement or a Third Force to wrest power from APC and PDP?

Don’t mind Obasanjo, he is trying in another way to realize what I will call Fourth Term, which he failed to realize while in office. What I mean by this is very simple – Obasanjo should never be trusted. Has he not publicly told Nigerians that he had quit active politics, if that is so, why is he floating another coalition, is that not another political party that he is floating? But yet Obasanjo is saying that he has quit politics. Obasanjo is deceiving Nigerians. Obasanjo double speaks; he is still actively involved in politics and his aims are two -to register that coalition as a political party, and then to get his own surrogate as the leader of the party. His ultimate aim is to get a leader he can manipulate, and who will be ready to dance to his tune anytime. Nigerians should be wary of Obasanjo and his new agenda.

PDP of recent has also been critical of Buhari’s administration, accusing the government of not living up to expectation, what’s your views on that?

What do you expect from PDP? Is PDP not an opposition party? You don’t expect PDP to sing the praise of APC. PDP was in power for 16 years and led Nigeria into economic recession, but with Buhari in the saddle just for two years plus, Nigeria is out of economic recession. The nation’s foreign reserve was seriously depleted under PDP’s government, but today, Buhari’s administration has built up Nigeria’s foreign reserve up to $40 billion, what about the reforms in the agricultural sector, especially in the area of rice production which has saved the nation the agony of rice importation which was to cost Nigeria lots of money.

What is your reaction to the recent killings by herdsmen in Benue, Taraba and other parts of the country?

From all the perspectives, political, social, economic and cultural, the unity of our country is becoming consistently threatened by the relentless attacks by these herdsmen. A large percentage of Nigerians are disenchanted and have lost confidence in the capacity of our security agencies to protect them.

What in your view is the solution to the problem?

Contrary to the cattle colonies idea being canvassed by the Federal Government, the permanent solution to the carnage by the herdsmen who to me are evil marauders is to establish Animal Fodder Farms in different zones, particularly in the northern parts of the country. Let me also state here that some foreign investors with the appropriate technological expertise have expressed their readiness and willingness to engage in beneficial partnership with the Federal Government in this regard, what is left is for the Federal Government to strike a deal with the foreign partners to start production. 5,000 hectares of cultivated land can produce sufficient fodder feeds which can conveniently feed one million cattle per year. We should not condemn Audu Ogbeh over the proposed Federal Government cattle colony’s proposal but we should all try to make useful recommendations that will help us to find ways out of any problem instead of being in the habit of criticizing, condemning or attacking any policy without proposing alternatives which will help us to chart ways forward. What should always be paramount in our mind is how to live together in harmony.

Culled from The Sun

Babangida asks Buhari to step down in 2019

IBB urges Buhari to step down in 2019 for digital leadership
…laments ceaseless flow of blood

Ibrahim Babangida

By Emmanuel Aziken, Political Editor

Former President Ibrahim Babangida has called on President Muhammadu Buhari to step down in 2019 to allow a generational shift that should reinvent the wheel of leadership and spur healing in the land.
Babangida in a special statement issued on Sunday also lamented the failure of the All Progressives Congress, APC to advance its change mantra in several areas of the polity saying that the party failed to push ahead with the programme to restructure the country as canvassed to Nigerians.

Babangida in the statement issued on his behalf by his spokesman, Prince Kassim Afegbua particularly lamented the flow of blood in the country noting that the unity that himself and others sought to keep was daily being drawn to the seams by the killings across the land.

Babangida also lamented the herdsmen/farmers clashes as he called for the adoption of ranching as a way of stemming the crisis. He also fumed against the recycling of analogue leadership as he called for a more youthful and digital leadership to push the country in the comity of nations.

Babangida who governed Nigeria as military head of state between 1985 and 1993 while lamenting the recycling of analogue leadership said:

“In the past few months and weeks, I have played host to many concerned Nigerians who have continued to express legitimate and patriotic worry about the state of affairs in the country. Some of them have continued to agonize about the turn of events and expressly worried why we have not gotten our leadership compass right as a country with so much potential and opportunity for all. Some, out of frustration, have elected to interrogate the leadership question and wondered aloud why it has taken this long from independence till date to discover the right model on account of our peculiarities. At 57, we are still a nation in search of the right leadership to contend with the dynamics of a 21st century Nigeria.

Having been privileged to preside over this great country, interacted with all categories of persons, dissected all shades of opinions, understudied different ethnic groupings; I can rightfully conclude that our strength lies in our diversity. But exploring and exploiting that diversity as a huge potential has remained a hard nut to crack, not because we have not made efforts, but building a consensus on any national issue often has to go through the incinerator of those diverse ethnic configurations. Opinions in Nigeria are not limited to the borders of the political elite; in fact, every Nigerian no matter how young or old, has an opinion on any national issue. And it is the function of discerning leadership to understand these elemental undercurrents in the discharge of state responsibilities.


There is no gainsaying the fact that Nigeria is at a major crossroads at this moment in its history; the choices we are going to make as a nation regarding the leadership question of this country and the vision for our political, economic and religious future will be largely determined by the nature or kind of change that we pursue, the kind of change that we need and the kind of change that we get. A lot depends on our roles both as followers and leaders in our political undertakings. As we proceed to find the right thesis that would resolve the leadership question, we must bear in mind a formula that could engender national development and the undiluted commitment of our leaders to a resurgence of the moral and ethical foundations that brought us to where we are as a pluralistic and multi-ethnic society.

Nigeria, before now, has been on the one hand our dear native land, where tribes and tongues may differ but in brotherhood we stand, and on the other hand a nation that continues to struggle with itself and in every way stumbling and willful in its quest to become a modern state, starting from the first republic till date. With our huge investments in the African emancipation movements and the various contributions that were made by our leadership to extricate South Africa from colonial grip, Nigeria became the giant of Africa during that period. But having gone through leadership failures, we no longer possess the sobriety to claim that status. And we all are guilty.

We have experimented with Parliamentary and Presidential systems of government amid military interregnum at various times of our national history. We have made some progress, but not good enough to situate us on the pedestal we so desirously crave for. It is little wonder therefore that we need to deliberately provoke systems and models that will put paid to this recycling leadership experimentation to embrace new generational leadership evolution with the essential attributes of responsive, responsible and proactive leadership configuration to confront the several challenges that we presently face.

In 2019 and beyond, we should come to a national consensus that we need new breed leadership with requisite capacity to manage our diversities and jump-start a process of launching the country on the super highway of technology-driven leadership in line with the dynamics of modern governance. It is short of saying enough of this analogue system. Let’s give way for digital leadership orientation with all the trappings of consultative, constructive, communicative, interactive and utility-driven approach where everyone has a role to play in the process of enthroning accountability and transparency in governance.

I am particularly enamored that Nigerians are becoming more and more conscious of their rights; and their ability to speak truth to power and interrogate those elected to represent them without fear of arrest and harassment. These are part of the ennobling principles of representative democracy. As citizens in a democracy, it is our civic responsibility to demand accountability and transparency. Our elected leaders owe us that simple but remarkable accountability creed. Whenever we criticize them, it is not that we do not like their guts; it is just that as stakeholders in the political economy of the country, we also carry certain responsibilities.

In the past few months also, I have taken time to reflect on a number of issues plaguing the country. I get frightened by their dimensions. I get worried by their colourations. I get perplexed by their gory themes. From Southern Kaduna to Taraba state, from Benue state to Rivers, from Edo state to Zamfara, it has been a theatre of blood with cake of crimson. In Dansadau in Zamfara state recently, North-West of Nigeria, over 200 souls were wasted for no justifiable reason. The pogrom in Benue state has left me wondering if truly this is the same country some of us fought to keep together. I am alarmed by the amount of blood-letting across the land. Nigeria is now being described as a land where blood flows like river, where tears have refused to dry up. Almost on a daily basis, we are both mourning and grieving, and often times left helpless by the sophistication of crimes. The Boko Haram challenge has remained unabated even though there has been commendable effort by government to maximally downgrade them. I will professionally advise that the battle be taken to the inner fortress of Sambisa Forest rather than responding to the insurgents’ ambushes from time to time.


In the fullness of our present realities, we need to cooperate with President Muhammadu Buhari to complete his term of office on May 29th, 2019 and collectively prepare the way for new generation leaders to assume the mantle of leadership of the country. While offering this advice, I speak as a stakeholder, former president, concerned Nigerian and a patriot who desires to see new paradigms in our shared commitment to get this country running. While saying this also, I do not intend to deny President Buhari his inalienable right to vote and be voted for, but there comes a time in the life of a nation, when personal ambition should not override national interest. This is the time for us to reinvent the will and tap into the resourcefulness of the younger generation, stimulate their entrepreneurial initiatives and provoke a conduce environment to grow national economy both at the micro and macro levels.

Contemporary leadership has to be proactive and not reactive. It must factor in citizens’ participation. Its language of discourse must be persuasive not agitated and abusive. It must give room for confidence building. It must build consensus and form aggregate opinion on any issue to reflect the wishes of the people across the country. It must gauge the mood of the country at every point in time in order to send the right message. It must share in their aspirations and give them cause to have confidence in the system. Modern leadership is not just about “fighting” corruption, it is about plugging the leakages and building systems that will militate against corruption. Accountability in leadership should flow from copious examples. It goes beyond mere sloganeering. My support for a new breed leadership derives from the understanding that it will show a marked departure from recycled leadership to creating new paradigms that will breathe fresh air into our present polluted leadership actuality.

My intervention in the governance process of Nigeria wasn’t an accident of history. Even as a military government, we had a clear-cut policy agenda on what we needed to achieve. We recruited some of the best brains and introduced policies that remain some of the best in our effort to re-engineer our polity and nation. We saw the future of Nigeria but lack of continuity in government and of policies killed some of our intentions and initiatives. Even though we did not provide answers to all the developmental challenges that confronted us as at that time, we were not short of taking decisions whenever the need arose.


The unchecked activities of the herdsmen have continued to raise doubt on the capacity of this government to handle with dispatch, security concerns that continue to threaten our dear nation; suicide bombings, kidnappings, armed banditry, ethnic clashes and other divisive tendencies. We need to bring different actors to the roundtable. Government must generate platform to interact and dialogue on the issues with a view to finding permanent solutions to the crises. The festering nature of this crisis is an inelegant testimony to the sharp divisions and polarizations that exist across the country. For example, this is not the first time herdsmen engage in pastoral nomadism but the anger in the land is suggestive of the absence of mutual love and togetherness that once defined our nationality. We must collectively rise up to the occasion and do something urgently to arrest this drift. If left unchecked, it portends danger to our collective existence as one nation bound by common destiny; and may snowball into another internecine warfare that would not be good for nation-building.

We have to reorient the minds of the herdsmen or gun-men to embrace ranching as a new and modern way to herd cattle. We also need to expand the capacity of the Nigeria Police, the Nigeria Army, the Navy and Air Force to provide the necessary security for all. We need to catch up with modern sophistication in crime detection and crime fighting. Due to the peculiarity of our country, we must begin community policing to close the gaps that presently exist in our policing system. We cannot continue to use old methods and expect new results. We just have to constructively engage the people from time to time through platforms that would help them ventilate their opinions and viewpoints.


When the ruling party campaigned with the change mantra, I had thought they would device new methods, provoke new initiatives and proffer new ways to addressing some of our developmental problems. By now, in line with her manifesto, one would have thought that the APC will give fillip to the idea of devolution of powers and tinker with processes that would strengthen and reform the various sectors of the economy. Like I did state in my previous statement late last year, devolution of power or restructuring is an idea whose time has come if we must be honest with ourselves. We need to critically address the issue and take informed positions based on the expectations of the people on how to make the union work better. Political parties should not exploit this as a decoy to woo voters because election time is here. We need to begin the process of restructuring both in the letter and spirit of it.

For example, I still cannot reconcile why my state government would not be allowed to fix the Minna-Suleja road, simply because it is called Federal Government road, or why state governments cannot run their own policing system to support the Federal Police. We are still experiencing huge infrastructural deficit across the country and one had thought the APC-led Federal Government would behave differently from their counterparts in previous administrations. I am hesitant to ask; where is the promised change?


At this point of our national history, we must take some rather useful decisions that would lead to real development and promote peaceful co-existence among all the nationalities. We must be unanimous in what we desire for our country; new generation leadership, result-driven leadership, sound political foundation, demonetization of our politics, enhanced internal democracy, elimination of impunity in our politics, inclusiveness in decision-making, and promotion of citizens’ participation in our democratic process. The search for that new breed leadership must start now as we prepare for 2019 election.

I get worried when politicians visit to inform me about their aspirations and what you hear in terms of budgetary allocations for electoral contest does not cover voters’ education but very ridiculous sub-heads. A typical aspirant in Nigeria draws up budget to cover INEC, Police, Army and men and officers of the Civil Defense, instead of talking of voters’ education, mobilization and sensitization. Even where benchmarks are set for electoral expenditure, monitoring and compliance are always difficult to adhere to. We truly need to reform the political system. And we must deliberately get fresh hands involved for improved participation.

We need new ways and new approaches in our political order. We need a national rebirth. We need a rebranded Nigeria and rebranded politics. It is not so much for the people, but for the institutions that are put in place to promote our political engagements. We must strengthen the one man one vote mantra. It is often ridiculous for me when people use smaller countries in our West Africa sub-region as handy references of how democracy should be. It beggars our giant of Africa status.

The next election in 2019 therefore presents us a unique opportunity to reinvent the will and provoke fresh leadership that would immediately begin the process of healing the wounds in the land and ensuring that the wishes and aspirations of the people are realized in building and sustaining national cohesion and consensus. I pray the Almighty Allah grant us the gift of good life to witness that glorious dawn in 2019. Amen. I have not written an open letter to the President, I have just shared my thoughts with fellow compatriots on the need to enthrone younger blood into the mainstream of our political leadership starting from 2019

Source: Vanguard

Woman who got pregnant for daughter’s husband aborts pregnancy

Outrage as woman who got pregnant for son-in-law aborts pregnancy

The mother and son in law. Picture and story courtesy of The Sun

Says she keeps only 2 male lovers now
She falls easily for sex, Son-in-law alleges

Mrs. Ashetu Igbawase, the 42-year-old widow who was impregnated by her son-in-law, Mr. Jonathan Ulaha, during her three-month’s sojourn in the latter’s village, Awe, in Nasarawa state, to harvest yam and guinea corn produce, said to be in danger of being destroyed by Fulani herders, has finally aborted the pregnancy, Saturday Sun can authoritatively reveal. This is just as she said she would, in the first part of the story published on Saturday, January 6, 2018 – to avoid turning the mistake into a monument of shame.

“I told my daughter the truth so that we can get a solution to it and out of anger she went public with it. I have since regretted my action,” she had confided in our correspondent then. “My intention was to find a way and abort it. My daughter agreed to look for somebody to abort it for me because I can’t keep it. The whole thing was temptation and I completely regret it.”

“She said she wants it aborted because it would be a shameful thing for her to be pregnant at her age when her husband is not alive,” her daughter, Victoria, had confirmed. John, her husband, who is at the centre of the storm had also added then that the pregnancy won’t stand. “I will do my best to plead with my wife to accept aborting it,” he promised Saturday Sun.

When, how and why the abortion was procured

Well, the deed has been done. The pregnancy has been aborted in accordance with the wishes of the various parties affected, although no one can predict how soon the shame brought about by the inglorious act will dissipate or recede into memories. For instance, although Mrs. Igbawase had since relocated to Daudu, a major town in Guma Local Government Area of Benue state, she confessed that she had continued to regret and to bemoan the abominable incident that brought her so much shame. The woman who revealed that her daughter procured the abortion for her, at the cost of N20, 000, at a pharmaceutical shop located in Lafia, Nasarawa state, said she couldn’t have kept the pregnancy for any reason.

“I couldn’t have kept it because what happened was a great mistake and an abomination of the highest order,” she said when Saturday Sun caught up with her in Guma. “If I deliver it, how do you think people will look at me?”

As to how she got her daughter, who was really embarrassed and embittered about the situation when Saturday Sun met her about three weeks ago, to help out, she said: “I knelt down and begged her to please forgive me for whatever wrong I must have committed. I was crying and you know what that means. Eventually, she saw reasons with me and we aborted it. But my worry then was that she was angry and went public with the whole matter.

“Though she was very angry, she later directed her husband who impregnated me to take me to one pharmacy in Kadarko and the man removed it at the cost of N20, 000. This was on the 6th of January 2018 (the same day that Saturday Sun went to town with the story). The pregnancy was three months and about two weeks old. You need to think more of what would have happened to me if I had gone ahead to keep the pregnancy, for who?”

She sighed as she added: “My decision to eliminate the pregnancy was the only option. With time I believe that I will get over it and move on with my life. I can’t imagine giving birth when my husband is not alive and, more so, to my own son-in-law. Sometimes, when I think over what happened, it appears to me as if I’m dreaming but I thank God that after a stormy time with my daughter a permanent solution was reached. I didn’t go back to my husband’s village to stay because of the herdsmen crisis. I decided to come down here for my safety and I have totally submitted my life to God praying every now and then for Him to forgive me.”

Daughter’s forgiveness and mother’s precautionary lifestyle

The ice build-up that the ugly incident caused between her and her daughter appears to be thawing. “I have been talking to my daughter and she is taking care of me,” she said. “She calls regularly to find out how I’m doing until recently when I lost my handset and she promised to get another one for me. As for her husband, we have not been talking often since I left their place. So far, we’ve spoken only on two occasions. I blamed him seriously the day we were going to Kadarko (to procure the abortion) for influencing me into this and he was just quiet. He only wanted to know why I succumbed to sex easily but we couldn’t argue further because the harm was done already.”

The shameful incident has taught her an unforgettable bitter lesson, she confessed, on the need to be more careful. “Before this thing happened I used to maintain about two strong relationships after the death of my husband and these men help me a lot in doing my farm work and with the other assistance. Both of them were not too young; one was from my husband’s village and the other lives in Gbajumba in Guma LGA. He would visit me occasionally and anytime he was around, I would tell the other man in the village to excuse me. That is how I have been living my life. But you see if the devil wants to cause trouble in your life if your faith is not strong, he comes in easily and that was what happened to me in this case.”

Praying for divine pardon

She said that after a thorough search of her soul, she concluded that what she did was the worst sin on earth, and decided to continually ask God for forgiveness. “Romans 10:9-10 says, that if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God has raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved, for with the heart man believeth unto righteousness, and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation,” she said. “I soon found out how wrong I was. Yes, the road to salvation begins with the desire to repent, forsake the life of sin, and take Christ as your personal Saviour. I am learning every day that it requires work, consciously deciding to forsake the world for God and in order to live this new lifestyle, we need to go to the source, the word of God.”

The discussion swung back to the aborted pregnancy and she said: “The pregnancy is no more. I have learnt my lesson and forgiven my son-in-law. My daughter has also forgiven me. And, I truly appreciate her and thank God for everything. She was the one who advised me to come close to God and plead with Him to forgive me. She said I committed the highest sin in the world and that I need to be begging God every second to forgive me.”

The gospel according to Jonathan and Victoria

Contacted, Mr. Jonathan Ulaha, the son-in-law said he doesn’t want to talk about the issue again. “That matter has passed,” he insisted. “I begged my wife to forgive me. I regretted so much my actions and anytime the issue comes up, I feel like committing suicide. Even my wife does not raise the issue with me again. As I talk with you I am serving a silent punishment under her, though I don’t have any problem anymore with her. I deeply understand that I offended her beyond redemption and I have vowed not to offend her for the remaining time we have on earth. So we are living happily as husband and wife, thank you.”

His wife, Victoria, agrees. “The matter has been resolved, the pregnancy is no more,” she said. “I have forgiven them and allowed God to decide their fate on the last day. I have said it, time and again, that I cannot leave my marriage because of what happened. As far as I am concerned, it is over and the whole thing is between them and their God. I have also asked God for forgiveness for approving the abortion of the pregnancy because I can’t understand my own biological mother giving birth to a child for my own legitimate husband. It would have been very strange. The whole matter is over and my husband has begged me enough and I have put that behind me, though he is undergoing punishment. I will not tell you the kind of punishment he is undergoing. All that I can say is that I love my husband and we are together.”

Police, lawyer, psychologist react

Weighing in on the development, right activist, Chief Mike Ozekhome, SAN, has said, forcible procurement of abortion, if the person is caught, is a criminal offence.

According to him, “The issue is both ethical and legal. Ethical in the sense that it amounts to an odious traditional and cultural taboo for a woman to have a child for the son-in-law, because it could mean that child will be her child, will be the brother to her daughter, while the son-in-law will be the father to her child, and also husband to her daughter.

Ethically therefore, it is wrong, and to have such a child is an odious happening even though things have gone haywire in the world.

The question also is whether the woman is also not entitled to know whether to keep the child or not. If the child is fully developed, it will become infanticide to kill such a child. Either way, it is a very poor case that the woman should never have allowed to happen at all no matter her hot pants.

“I’m a Christian, I do not believe in abortion, but I do believe that any abortion that threatens the life of the mother should be allowed to be procured so as to save the life of the mother because the Bible says, “Thou shall not kill”

But if the mother will loose her life for an unborn embryo, it will be better for the embryo to go so that the mother can live as she can have embryos in future.

This is a warning to our women folk; no matter how hot their pants are, to stop the shame of sleeping with their sons-in law, drivers, stewards, aides, gardeners, etc, all because they want to satisfy their high libido. It is a shame.”

In her reaction, Patricia Chiegboka, Clinical Psychologist, she said what Igbawase did was an abomination.

In her words, “First, what she did was an abomination. How can a mother seek sexual solace in her son-in-law? In such a case, the psychological effects on the woman are high. It can result in mental breakdown because she got pregnant from having an illicit relationship with her son-in-law. One of the psychological effects of her recent action is shame. She will experience shame because the act that was done in secret has become public knowledge. They were never prepared for the public to know the secret thing they were doing.

“Another psychological effect of this woman’s action is guilt. She will feel guilty for killing an innocent child even though she committed an abortion just to save herself and the unborn child from shame. The woman’s continued relationship with the public will be marred. People would not want to associate with her and her son-in-law anymore because of their action. She can also start battling depression and if she’s not properly taken care of, she may become suicidal.”

As at press time, the Force Police Public Relations Officer, CSP Jimoh Moshood was yet to answer his call or respond to text messages sent to him on the matter.

However, the Lagos State Police spokesman, SP Chike Oti warned that such act is criminal and both the woman and those who assisted her are liable.

Not My Herdsmen, By Ose Oyamendan

Not My Herdsmen, By Ose Oyamendan

It’s confusing because the herdsmen of my childhood only carried long sticks and concealed knives. I’m told they now carry AK-47s, like warriors in some devastated countries in the Middle East. And, that makes me wonder – who are these herdsmen? They definitely are not my herdsmen, the herdsmen of my youth.

I’m reading tales of herdsmen, tales that feels like sermons from the devil’s altar. These are not your night time reading. With each gory picture and video, I feel like we’ve been temporarily transported to someone else’s hell.

The tales have left my jaws permanently slack like a punch-drunk boxer. I’m stunned because I know these herdsmen. We were friends who passed each other in the fields or waved at each other from the train on the way to school. As a high school kid, I always looked forward to seeing them the moment the train rolls out of the station in Ibadan on the long trek up North. Some people had the northern star, we had had the herdsmen. They were both constant, one in the skies, the other in the field.

In boarding house, we sometimes played truant during afternoon siesta. We will prop the bed with pillows and clothes and cover it with a bed sheet as if it’s a human at sleep. Then we will wander into the fields and savour our freedom for an hour or so. That was where I encountered my first herdsmen. It was around the Harmattan season, one of those lazy afternoons when the bitter night winds hover just behind the hills. That was when I met my first herdsmen up close and personal.

They were a mystery to me. They moved around in batches. In class, we had been told that they migrated all the way from the North in search of food for the cattle. Back then we thought the North started somewhere between Sokoto and Maiduguri. But a Youth Corper who taught in the school confided in us that when it comes to herdsmen, the North of Nigeria stretched far into Chad, Niger, Mali and most likely farther!

I loved the herdsmen. They had kids my age. I envied them because I would have loved a bit of a nomadic life but here I was trapped in a prison called boarding school, and just to confirm our state of imprisonment, we had assigned uniforms too.

They do not speak English and I do not speak Fulfude. But, we communicated. The older herdsman offered us a cheese delicacy that was a delight, in comparison to the drab pap and bean cake we had for breakfast earlier. For several weeks, we would go into the fields and watch group after group of herdsmen drift past.

I loved their nomadic life but I used to feel bad for the kids my age. The nomadic life could not have been an easy one. When we did the school mini marathons, my legs would be sore for a whole week. How could these kids my age walk thousands of miles, through different terrains, for several months a year? There has to be a better way.

I knew those boys would prefer to be home or near home, around people who understand their language, ate their food and shared a communal bond with them. I knew they would like to go to school. I knew they would like to sit at the feet of a cleric, learn the holy book, go back home to their mother’s cooking, then lay under the moonlight to count the stars. I was only 10 but I knew life had to be better. Now that I am much older, I know what that was – a failure of leadership. In all my travels outside Africa, I’ve never seen herdsmen walking for thousands of miles to graze. So, why in Nigeria, the self-styled leader of the black race?

But, back to my first meeting with herdsmen. They do not speak English and I do not speak Fulfude. But, we communicated. The older herdsman offered us a cheese delicacy that was a delight, in comparison to the drab pap and bean cake we had for breakfast earlier. For several weeks, we would go into the fields and watch group after group of herdsmen drift past. Sometimes we played with the cattle. We will slap their thighs and sign songs that they will be in our belly come the next Eid or Christmas.

I’m told that if I do that today I’d be shot. It’s confusing because the herdsmen of my childhood only carried long sticks and concealed knives. I’m told they now carry AK-47s, like warriors in some devastated countries in the Middle East. And, that makes me wonder – who are these herdsmen? They definitely are not my herdsmen, the herdsmen of my youth. What changed in the last thirty years that has turned the loving herdsmen in search of a living into plunderers and terrorists?

Whatever it is, the people need answers and not politics or inaction. The people are already suffering and dying from poverty, bad roads and poor administration. Why add the herdsmen’s menace to the list?

The kid herdsmen of my youth will be men now, most likely the elder herdsmen. I can’t seem to imagine them with Ak-47. You gotta ask, what turns an innocent boy into an adult terrorist? What went wrong and where? I have racked my brain for answers and I can’t find any. I would be hard on myself but then I remember the federal government with all its might doesn’t seem to have an answer either.

It’s 2018, politics is in the air. The elephants are stomping across the nation and the poor folks are suffering. The case of the people and the herdsmen just ups the ante. But, must Nigerian leaders always look at things from the all-empty or all-full glass of political calculations? Isn’t it time to really dig into what went wrong and how it can be fixed? If we can’t go forward, why not go back to a time of peace, a time when these same herdsmen will politely ask if they can drink water from your well?

Or. Maybe its time the government tells us what kinds of herdsmen go about carrying AK-47. Or, why in a country with laws and law enforcers, are ordinary citizens allowed to carry weapon around as if they live in a failed state? Are they fleeing Boko Haram militants or the Libyan militiamen who found themselves with too many weapons after the fall of Muammar Gaddafi?

Whatever it is, the people need answers and not politics or inaction. The people are already suffering and dying from poverty, bad roads and poor administration. Why add the herdsmen’s menace to the list?

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Culled from Premium Times.